Secrets of Russian Women
It is common when men start searching for Russian and Ukrainian brides to have a lot of questions and want a lot of answers, the biggest question, why would highly educated women want to leave her own country for a new life with a foreign man? So let’s take a look at some commonly asked questions on Russian dating and try to answer a few points.
The Truth of Things
Russian women do not want to marry a rich older foreigner, 30 years her senior, to escape the «horrors» of Russia. They are online looking for husbands because they are interested in something more than what they can find in Russia, a good husband who is healthy, intelligent, and attractive. Russia has ten million more women in the country than men so for Russian women to find a perfect partner is not the easiest of matters. Of course Russian women want financial security, but that is a given for anyone planning on leaving the country in which they are born. Financial security is a must. This does not mean you have to earn a six figure sum, financial security just means a normal man with a normal job in a position to support a family.
Russian women are looking for much more than immigration to a different country. They are looking for a good husband. So, why does the internet full of stories about Russian women want to escape the poverty of their own country? To give you an idea of where these rumours all started we need to look back over 20 years ago when Russia was in the Soviet Union and it was true, many women did want to escape from the country. Today is a very different story, Russia has a strong economy and many women have a better life style than their Western counterparts. In the modern Russia you are going to have to do a lot more than turn up with you American passport and show it about, Russian women want a lot more than a passport to another country.
So what do They Actually Want?
As with all women from all corners of the globe Russian women are looking for love and wellbeing. Of course they are interested in finding someone who is financially secure. As with any women with marriage on her mind she needs to find a partner who is capable of supporting her and any future children.
Of Couse as we have already discussed you do not need to be a multi-millionaire, most normal guys in a normal job meet the standard of standards of financial security. For American men to bring their bride into the country they will need to fill in rigorous paperwork to prove they are in a position to support their Russian brides.
So what else are Russian women looking for? Russian women are looking for love like any other women. Impressing women with your financial position simply is not enough. You must be able to maintain a healthy relationship and do all it takes to make the relationship loving and exciting for your lady. It is a fact that many Russian women will actually go for men who have a more interesting personality than a man who is rich and good looking.
Most importantly, you must offer her the chance for a commitment. If you are going to pursue a relationship with someone online, you expect to eventually meet and possibly marry that person. For that reason, you must give them a reason to believe that this will happen. Russian women searching online for a life partner have no interest in fun and games.
The Age Difference
It is assumed by many men from the West that Russian brides on sites such as Bridesandlovers.com are happy to meet and marry with a guy 20/30 years older than themselves. The truth is that most Russian women are not willing to consider someone so much older than them. The days when young Russian women would marry any guy whatever the age difference are well and truly in the past, however, you should not immediately assume that a Russian woman who is younger than you will not be interested in an older guy, every woman has her own values and opinions.
Most Russian women will have no problem in being interested in a man who is 10/15 years older, and a lot will depend on the girls age, a lot will also depend on the man’s mentality, a young girl is not going to want to marry a older guy who has no life in him, if you are a young at heart man you may have a chance with a younger women.
Younger women are much more willing to consider men much older than them. However, an older woman in her 30s or 40s is more likely to want to be with a guy of her own age…
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OMG ! It that were true, I cant eat anything for the next 2 days !
No. Geez, people, have some friggin’ common sense.
And menstrual blood is just BLOOD. That’s it.
EDIT-Thanks, Mrs, for the biology lesson. As always, your trite grade school lessons are beyond helpful.
However, my point was actually that it’s not something «vile and disgusting» that women «leak»…as so often seems to be the attitude. When analyzed on a chemical level, menstrual blood does not look that much different than plain old blood, under a microscope.
But thanks again for the fifth grade anatomy lesson. However, in the future, you can just save it for your primary grade students.
EDIT-MRS.-I didn’t say it was a «figure of speech.» I said that YOU missed my point. And since I don’t plan on ever teaching first graders ANYTHING, I’ll leave the asking up to you. As for the recipe, I really don’t have any, or I’d love to help. My suggestion is to consult your local witch. Apparently it’s used in recipes for spells that help wives maintain the attention and affection of their husband.
EDIT-Mrs. No, it isn’t a «figure of speech.» That would imply that I was likening menstrual blood to «generic» blood in a figurative way. I quite LITERALLY meant that menstrual blood is, in fact, BLOOD. ACTUAL BLOOD…with little to no difference. Do you understand what the term «figure of speech» means? From your response, apparently not. Well, since we’re giving out lessons….
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hs=IcT&defl=en&q=define:Figure+of+speech&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title
As I said, I really can’t help you with your search for recipes. The above is pretty much the extent of my knowledge on the subject. But good luck with that.
Also, I’m sure your little «lessons» that you’ve felt necessary to dole out are «well-intentioned,» but I assure you that they are both unnecessary and unwarranted. Again, leave the teacher hat in the classroom, it gets a little tiresome here.
yes. they also finger painted with it and dyed their silk skirts a ruby red with the left-overs.
Ewww, I have never heard of this. Are any of the sources you have heard this from credible?
Wendy- Do we need to send you back to sex ed. It is not just «blood». Much of it is the lining of the uterus. It may also contain cervical mucus and other vaginal secretions.
http://www.womhealth.org.au/factsheets/menstruation.htm
EDIT- Well I would like to see your recipes then dear, however I think it would be inappropriate to teach primary students (K-3rd grade) about this. Perhaps you should discuss it with parents in your area and see how they feel about it.
But nice save «figure of speech»…yeah right.
EDIT-
Well dear, associating the «blood» (menstruation fluid) with actual blood is a figure of speech, which you used before you got all so defensive,
So you feel it is appropriate to teach this to 1st graders? Like I said you may want to enlist the opinions of parents in your area before making such statements.
And you do know something about cooking with menstrual fluid, you say?
So that’s why the borscht soup was so thick…
I don’t know the answer but that is weird. But when people are poor and starving they will try anything. There was a diet many years ago where women got injected with pregnant womens urine so who knows.
Oh barf. That’s so gross. Who the heck would eat their own fluids?? I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s not true. In the old days there was no way to collect said fluids in order to be able to cook with them.
One thing that *is* true is that there are women who cook and eat their placentas after delivering a baby. I kid you not. Google «placenta recipe» sometime and prepare to vomit. *shudder* I can understand dogs and cats and wild animals eating it, but humans? Dude, that’s taking the whole «humans are an advanced animal species» a little too far, I think.
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never heard this one so I spent some time researching it, and couldn’t find any thing on it. However here are some interesting facts.
I got this info from:
http://www.cwhn.ca/resources/pub/Sweet_Secrets/celebrations.html
Menstruation Across Cultures
Here are some examples of menstrual rules and rituals from around the world and from different times in history:
*The Kaska of western Canada and the Warao of Venezuela created special “menstrual huts” for their menstruating women.
*In ancient Rome, it was commonly believed that menstrual blood could cure certain illnesses. In Morocco at the beginning of the 20th century, people believed it could cure wounds and open sores.
*Some cultures, like North American whites, call menstruation a “curse.” Other people, like the Ebrié of the Ivory Coast in Africa, think it’s a curse if a young woman should lose her periods.
*Many cultures, like the Asante of Ghana, have special parties to celebrate the powers of the menstruating woman. But there are also other cultures, like the Greek Orthodox Church, which prevent menstruating women from taking part in religious ceremonies like communion.
*The Mae Enga of New Guinea used menstrual blood as a poison against enemies, while the Asante in Ghana and the Kwakiutl of the Pacific Northwest use menstrual blood as a way of protecting themselves from evil forces.
*In many hunting cultures, menstruating women are not allowed to touch the hunting equipment before a big hunt. Some agricultural communities, however, use menstrual blood to bless their crops.
*The women of the Rungus of Borneo let their blood flow freely during menstruation. They don’t use a menstrual product to absorb their blood, but spend their bleeding time sitting on specially dried moss or bamboo slats. When they wish to move around or change positions, they rinse themselves and the moss or slats with water.
*The Beng women of the Ivory Coast spend their menstrual time preparing a meal that’s considered a delicacy and takes many hours to prepare. This dish is eaten only by menstruating women and their close female friends.
*Some scholars believe that all religious celebrations and rituals first began with the celebration of menstruation. Menstrual blood was considered by ancient cultures to be one of the most sacred substances since it, like the blood of childbirth, is the only kind of blood that’s not linked with death and dying – but with the potential for new life.
The root word for “ritual” comes from a Sanskrit word that means “menses.” This links menstruation with the very origins of religious rituals.
OMG I just think I threw up in my mouth a little bit.
OMG, this is more information than I needed! Yuck. Hope it’s not true. ♥ ∞
EDIT: Wow, I like Steve_Reads answer! I hope he wins the 10 points. Very well done research there bubba. ♥ ∞
in the dark ages it was believed in many parts of Europe that a woman could use menstrual blood as a primary ingredient to cast a spell over a man in an effort to get him to fall for her.
How often it was used will never be known but there you go.
I’ve heard of that with Italians…it’s kinda an «old wives tale»
and menstrual blood to the first red sauce you cook for a man and he will never leave you….or he will tell you how he truly feels.
The same thing was said about the Creole women of Hatti and Louisiana. It’s all a myth. No one has ever been able to prove this. Believe nothing you hear and half of what you see until someone prove otherwise.
Oh man, that’s gross.