BE AWARE: Since many dating services offer options of friendship, dating, serious relationship/marriage, or alternative connections, think first about what you really want. As homo sapiens, we are pretty savvy these days and won’t give you a millisecond of our valuable time if you b.s. about wanting a committed relationship but then indicate otherwise with your words, body language, and actions. If you want raw, passionate sex, say so. You will likely find the readers who respond to your profile–which shows you know yourself–will want the same thing. If, conversely, you want to go directly to the chapel or synagogue or grassy wedding field, avoid flirting and leading others on. Even if it’s sex they want, you will still hurt them, frustrate them, and have very bad karma.