As one who has been in long term relationships (only after dating many men), I have come to learn that men are not big talkers; are uni-focused; have a large spatial range; get aroused easily; and adore (and need) things and events that are fast and faster, big and bigger, and have power and more power. So, conversely, when preparing for dating women or when regarding your experiences dating women or being in relationships with them, you have likely come to acknowledge that women are big talkers; are multi-focused; have a keen sense for details; get aroused, but not as quickly (or as often); and adore things and events that require close proximity, togetherness, and touching. So. Given the facts, what shall we do? Resist? Fight to change/control the realities? Get all cruel, sarcastic, and dismissive? Or, shall we accept that such differences exist and make the best of every odd moment?
